Jessica Hartmann – author of fremdgehen-ist-geil.de

Hi, I'm Jessica.

Sugarbabe, lifestyle blogger, wine lover. I write the way I live – honest and unfiltered.

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Who I am

I'm 26, I live in Munich, and for a good three years I've been living a life most people only know from glossy magazines. I'm a sugarbabe – and I'm open about it. Not because I have to, but because I think it's time to talk about this way of living without shame.

On this blog I write about what I've experienced myself: wine tastings in Burgundy, evenings in Michelin-starred restaurants, trips to London and Dubai, but also about the questions real women ask in this world. How do I communicate my expectations? How do I find the right partner? What etiquette applies at upscale occasions? And, of course, about affairs, cheating and discreet dating.

How it all began

During my business studies, a friend introduced me to lifestyle dating for the first time. I was skeptical, curious – and then fascinated. Not by the idea of "using" someone, but by the openness with which wishes, independence and mutual respect were discussed. My first real sugar daddy was a Munich entrepreneur. He taught me how to open a Bordeaux, how to order in a two-star restaurant and why presence matters more than looks.

Those experiences shaped me. And I want to pass them on, because back then I would have wished for someone to tell me honestly how this world really works.

What you'll find here

I write every post in the first person, with my own experiences, real places and concrete tips. Not a generic "How to find your dream man" guide, but content that genuinely helps – whether you are new to lifestyle dating or have been around for a while.

  • Etiquette and how to carry yourself at upscale occasions
  • Honest insights into my dating life
  • Travel and restaurant recommendations from personal experience
  • Tips on communication, self-confidence and setting boundaries

Stay in touch

I'm happy about every message. If you have questions, want to suggest a topic or simply want to tell me how your own story is going – write to me. You can also find me on MySugardaddy, the platform through which I met many of my acquaintances.